In the DISINTEGRATION area it is easy to find good men that genuinely tried to fix their relationships and failed.
The disintegration stage is the ultimate ticket to Hell.
This is the scenario:
Your relationship has disintegrated!
Your life as you knew it is gone!
Even the previous strongholds of your love life collapsed and there are only wreckages around you.
The disintegration is a scary place. Not everybody can go there.